Are you tired of seeing your ex-girlfriend entertaining suitors? Are
you sick of missing your ex and thinking of her whereabouts and what’s
keeping her busy? You are wondering how to win her back and make your
ex-girlfriend want you back. It may look impossible now but do not lose
hope because you just need to find the right way to get her to notice
you again. The following tips can be very helpful to make your
ex-girlfriend want you back.
Truly listen and understand her point of view. Although it can be
really difficult to understand women especially when they don’t know
what they want, there are times that men fail to understand women
because they don’t know how to really listen to what they are saying. Do
you understand where your girlfriend is coming from? Take a moment and
reflect on what happened in your relationship and why the relationship
ended. Maybe there are moments that you failed to understand her or pay
attention to her. If you want to make your ex-girlfriend want you back,
you need to start planning and do something about it.
Be confident. Most women if not all are attracted to confident men.
Women want men to protect them and they are looking for reliable men.
Confident men are usually reliable because they have the confidence to
accomplish things. Confident men are highly attractive to women and
those men who are lacking in confidence are hardly noticed. You might
say that this is not you and you cannot fit into this role. Before you
start degrading yourself, you have to understand that confidence is not
just about accomplishing things but most importantly it is about
believing that you CAN accomplish things. It is important that you have
that mindset first. Confidence can be learned and you can start by
changing your mindset.
Get active. You can turn into a couch potato thinking about your ex
and your heartache and you should not allow this to happen if you want
to make your ex-girlfriend want you back. You do not want to add
unnecessary weight and look unattractive. Get up and get active to avoid
getting fat while you are planning to get your ex-girlfriend back. Keep
yourself busy and get physically active to get your mind off your ex.
Join a gym or join some friends on a light jogging in the morning or
afternoon. Take up a new sport and make yourself physically active.
Be firm not to contact your ex. Give yourself and your ex time to
reflect about what happened and make a firm decision not to contact your
ex. Believe that you have to do it for your own good and set you mind
that in order to get your ex-girlfriend back later, you have to endure
not seeing her for a while. Focus on yourself and how you can improve
yourself as a person and as good boyfriend.
Don’t be a doormat. Although you want her back so badly, don’t allow
her to treat you like a doormat. Don’t give her the permission to take
advantage of you because she knows that you want her back in your life.
Set boundaries and keep your self-respect. A woman who doesn’t respect
you as a person and treats you like a doormat doesn’t deserve you. If
your ex-girlfriend saw that you a person of good worth and you are
different from others, she’ll start to think highly of you. After all no
one wants a clingy and desperate boyfriend.
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