Have you broken up with someone because of a misunderstanding, an
argument, or over something that really shouldn’t have caused a break
up? Cause if you are then I can understand wanting to fix your
relationship even if you had gotten pretty upset with them. There are a
few methods you can take. First is the active version and then the
passive version.
Now to take the active approach and if your ex is willing to talk
then this method should be the most straightforward, but if the heat of
the last argument hasn’t cooled down between the both of you then it
most likely will lead to another word fight. First, come to understand
what the argument was about. Then, if the argument is something you
regret and that you truly want to get back together then you need to
express that with your ex. Now, they might not want to talk to you and
still feel upset, but you should kindly tell them that the argument went
way out of hand and anything you said wasn’t how you really felt and
that you would want to possibly talk things over with them. Having
sincerity in your words is far more important than pride at this point,
but if they won’t give you time they certainly don’t deserve your
attention.
Next we have is the passive method this one focuses solely on self
evaluation and to get your ex to look at a fresh you. This one is
probably the better option for both you and the entire relationship. The
reason I say that is because if you look from how you were before,
during, and after the relationship you gotta make some decisions based
on how you feel towards yourself. Are you happy with who you are now? If
not then you should choose this option, not only is it possible you’ll
catch your ex’s attention, but you will feel better about yourself along
with it. The steps for this method is easy. First, try changing your
hairstyle to something you normally don’t do, but look good with.
Next, spice up your wardrobe with something new for instance try
different colored shirts that might bring a different feel that isn’t
usual for you. Now, the next step should be easier and something you
need to think about less before doing and that would be to just hang out
with your friends or some new companions and just enjoy yourself. Now
the final step after separating any sad feelings and partly moved on
from your ex if you still want to get back together. Talk to your ex
with that new found confidence and bright appearance they just might
jump at the chance to get back with you. This might make you happy to
realize that your hurt feelings from the past are still there and the
only reason your standing there now is because of how you feel towards
them.
If you can’t get past all of the drama with your ex they might not be
worth it and then its time to move on and if you take the passive
method you will most definitely come out with less scars and a lot more
hope for future relationships that you can work on with them and even
decide some things up front to prevent past problems to reoccur. I hope
my insight is useful for many situations and even help those that need
to move on, because there is no fix all answer.
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