Trying to talk to your ex right after the break up could be very
difficult and frustrating. You may be asking yourself now what you can
do to get your ex to return your phone call. Are there strategies that you can use to make your ex call back to you?
In calling your ex you should know what you are doing because if you
are doing something you do not know, you may jeopardize whatever chance
you have in getting your ex back. Fortunately, there are words that you
can use to get your ex to return your phone call.
First you must know what not to say. Knowing what will not work is
essential to avoid the mistakes that most people do after the break up.
Pleading messages on your phone calls will definitely not work. Pleading
or desperate messages like “please call back, this is the 5th time I
have called and I have to talk to you.” will not work and will only push
your ex away from you. Emergency message like “James this is an
emergency, please call me” sounds fake and manipulative which is also
not an effective way to get your ex to return your phone call.
The single most effective way to get your ex to return your phone
call is tickle his or her curiosity and self interest. These two
powerful things when combined can work wonders. Call your ex and in a
friendly nice tone say lines like these “Hey Jake this is Jenny. I want
to let you know that I really appreciate what you did for me. You do not
know how much it helped me. Call me because I want to thank you in
person. This message will trigger the curiosity and self interest of
your ex. Your ex will keep thinking what he or she did that made you so
appreciative and thankful. The message also sends positive vibes that
can make your ex feel good.
Of course before making that phone call to tickle the curiosity and
self interest of your ex, you have to figure out what your ex did that
you appreciate. It can be something that is believable. But aside from
succeeding on your goal to get your ex to return your phone call, you
have to work on a solid plan on how to win your ex back. If you will use
this strategy to make your ex call you back and you have no solid
strategy, you may do more damage than good if you do not know how to
handle the situation correctly.
In other words, while you are trying to get your ex to return your
phone call, a solid plan on how to make your ex want you back is more
important than getting your ex call you back. There are proven
strategies to win your ex back for good, visit Ex Recovery System
