Any relationship is hard to keep and there is no easy ways to make
the relationship last. A long lasting marriage needs a lot of work and
although divorce is a common thing now, there are some things that you
can do to prevent divorce from happening and save yourself from heartaches.
Keep the communication channels open. If you know that you can always
talk to your spouse and be honest with your feelings, the relationship
will always work and will last for years. Every one needs someone to
talk to and if you are the type of spouse who keeps the communication
lines open, you can prevent divorce from happening. Your spouse does not
have to look for other people outside the marriage to talk to because
he or she knows that the communication channel inside the marriage is
always open.
Be open with your feelings especially when things are going bad.
Sometimes relationships fall apart because couples are not open and
honest with their feelings. When there are things in the marriage that
upsets you or bothers you, it is best to open up with your spouse and
talk about the issue than keep it to yourself. People who are afraid to
open up their true feelings to their spouse are vulnerable to
extramarital affairs.
Do things together. Find a common interest or hobby and do it
together. Doing things together that you both enjoy is a good way to
bond with each other. Bonding activities are important if you want to
prevent divorce from happening. You can take photography classes
together, watch concerts, dance or sing together, participate in charity
work together and so on. It does not matter what it is as long as you
both enjoy doing it together and it can make the relationship stronger.
Do your own thing separately. Spending too much time with each other
can be so tiring and overwhelming. To prevent boredom and prevent
divorce from happening, you need to take some time alone and do your own
thing. At the same time, give your spouse his or her own time to do the
things they want to do. For him it may be playing basketball with their
friends and for her it may be shopping or going to a salon with her
girl friends.
Make time for romance and intimacy. You have to make time to be
intimate with each other. Cuddling, kissing and great sex are very
important to keep the love and romance in your marriage. There are a lot
of things that you both can do to make the marriage more exciting and
prevent divorce from happening.
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